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Posted by Kitty on May 29, 2012

1(800) SEX XXX: Phone sex for beginners

Phone sex how I love thee…

Phone sex gets you turned on enough to touch yourself (and you should) and gives you something to look forward to when you finally get to see the person on the other side of the line.

 

What you need…

Obviously a phone. Besides that you really don’t need anything else but time and imagination.

 

If you’re a beginner or the idea makes you a bit shy I say set up an atmosphere for yourself that makes you feel sexy and relaxed. Whether that be playing your favorite slow jams, dimming all the lights, or wearing clothing that puts you in the mood.

Imagination is the biggest tool you need during phone sex. It’s not as easy as traditional sex or web sex where you can actually visualize what your partner is saying or doing which is what makes it so sexy.

In your imaginary world anything and everything can happen.

I don’t know about you all but phone sex turns me the hell on!

Leaving your sexual arousal only to the device of your partners voice…breathing, sighing, moaning… how could it not be?

Dialogue…

Talk dirty baby! Say all those nasty, naughty things you’ve always wanted to, always do, or were always to shy to.

Feel silly talking dirty? Or maybe dirty isn’t your style… well here’s a fun alternative…

Be very descriptive in what you’re doing and what you want your partner to do to themselves. You can start by describing what you would want them to be doing to you if they were physically with you and go from there.

You can also speak to each other about past sex sessions you’ve had and let the memories bring heat naturally.

You can speak another language? Use  it! (and then give me a call because that’s hot)

What to do…

Seeing as it is called phone SEX the end goal is for you to get off. Touching, teasing and playing with yourself to your partners commands is a great start.

From there things will move naturally.

Other fun…

Add sex toys and other pleasure devices into the mix. One, it will turn your partner on hearing you use the toy on yourself. Two, it will help you on your side to reach that O.

Hands-free toys are the best because than you still have your hands to use the phone and to do whatever else you may find necessary…

For men I suggest a cock ring that you can put on and let it vibrate without your help.

For the ladies I suggest bullets that can be inserted. You can insert it, set it, and forget it :)

 

Written By: Symone Nelson

Twitter: @TheSymoneShow

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